Hi, So my girlfriend lost feelings for me, but still loves me so much she says. She tells me she’s trying to get her feelings back, but for now…It hurts her when she knows she’s hurting me.
Cause we’re both working on trying to get her feelings back for me, I’m going back to doing the things I did when we first got together, but it hurts her when she sees me trying and she still doesn’t feel her feelings coming back. But she wants to love me as she did again. She always says “I really don’t know why I’m being like this.” and always apologizes to me for not loving me romantically anymore. She even assumes “Maybe it’s the period coming”
I’m her first relationship. And she’s my first serious relationship.
I do admit, I spoiled her with love, (we met on the net, we know what each other look like, we’ve been dating for 4 months and not long ago, we were crazy for each other, but we haven’t met face to face yet) I spoiled her with love and attention, but I also was pretty possessive, I get jealous easily…Cause She is a VERY beautiful girl and she’s really sweet, so I tend to get paranoid some other guy will try to take her away…Cause I’m a girl (I’m the guy in the relationship)
We both are youtube singers and quite a few of people in our singing community knows us, and a lot of guys thinks she’s cute too-I get jealous easily when they send her hearts in texts or when they ask for her skype so they can privately talk about collapsing on a song to sing, I get jealous even though I know it’s for “work”
She told me she’s not physically and sexually attracted to me anymore but is still strongly attracted to me emotionally and mentally. She says she still likes me a lot and loves me more than how she can ever explain.
We decided to take a 2-week break, so maybe her feelings might return for us after experiencing life without me or something…
But we don’t know what are the do’s and don’ts during a relationship break too. ( like do we still get to text or call? or what to talk about or how to treat each other during the break?)
We REALLY want to make our relationship work. We do love each other so much. And we both don’t want us to end. Please help us, I really don’t know what to do, It really hurts.