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My girlfriend has very poor self image and I'm not helping things.
My girlfriend has very poor self image and I'm not helping things. I've been with her for around 8 years and we have a one year old. She was always very shy and I found out a few months into the relationship that she "hates herself". I tried to make her see herself differently but ... (continued)
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Anonymous
Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 4:55pm
Give an answer ->10. My boyfriend chats to other girls on Facebook and hides it from me, then tells me I'm paranoid. Is this normal or is he up to something?
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Sunflowergal
Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 1:09pm
I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.
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Sat 17, Nov 2012 at 11:03am
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katttttttttt
Sat 26, Nov 2011 at 11:51pm
he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.
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Mon 31, Oct 2011 at 11:02am
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:28am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:27am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:26am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:26am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:26am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:26am
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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Anonymous
Fri 14, Oct 2011 at 2:49pm
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I love my partner but can't stop thinking about this other guy at work. Is it possible to forget him, or should I leave my partner for him?
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Tiny_Tim
Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 4:51pm
Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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Tiny_Tim
Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 4:51pm
Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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Fri 14, Oct 2011 at 5:06pm
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katttttttttt
Sat 26, Nov 2011 at 11:53pm
imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.
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Fri 28, Oct 2011 at 11:09am
Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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Fri 28, Oct 2011 at 11:09am
Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 11:46am
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Fri 14, Oct 2011 at 2:42pm
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I've just discovered my partner looks at porn on the internet. I'm hurt as he promised he never would. Should I consider it cheating?
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hlin334
Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 10:02pm
its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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Anonymous
Tue 31, Jan 2012 at 11:05pm
I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this
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hlin334
Thu 8, Dec 2011 at 10:02pm
its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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Annika89
Thu 27, Oct 2011 at 11:59am
It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.
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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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Dominic
Tue 18, Oct 2011 at 11:58am
No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.
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He thinks I NEED him, how do I act on this tonight guys? I am in control, not let this guy control me!
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CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP, I CANT COPE :'(
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Sinead
Mon 17, Jun 2013 at 10:00pm
Why not post on the forum and give more detail of what it is you can't cope with...the community can then try to help with their responses.
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He used me just cfor sex, he played me or himis just in a lot of trouble?
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Mon 17, Jun 2013 at 9:55pm
Only he can answer those questions for you. However, you seem to know he is the unfaithful type, so even if he does come back, are you sure you want to get more involved with someone who is likely to break your heart? Do post this on the forum, so that others can also respond.
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If you say that you love you boyfriend but keep thinning about a guy at work, you need to figure out why. What is going on at home? When we are either unhappy or avoiding issues at home, it can make us look at situations around us and remember how simple things were in the beginning. Take time to really figure out what is going on for you here. If you love you boyfriend, you owe it to him (and you) to figure out what is going on and to try to resolve things. I know it's wonderful to be seduced by the romance of this other guy...but think about what you have and what you want before you act. Good luck.