I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

be careful, he is cheating you,

he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.

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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

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This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.

Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.

Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

Leaving your partner for this other guy is likely to be a mistake.

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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this

its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.

It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.

A promise is a promise …isn’t it?

No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.

It sounds like you feel uncomfortable with this and you don't think it's right. Being very jealous can be part of controlling behaviour. He says it is his way, it maybe his way but you don't have to accept it. What do you think?

It will probably take her time to get over him, and it does sound as if she wants to be with you. Why don't you post more details of the situation on the Relationship Forum to get some advice from other users, you definitely won't be the only one to be in this situation!

I'm not sure that I understand the question you're asking. I think you will have more response to this if you provide some more details and also post it on the Relationship Forum.