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Anonymous
18 October 2011 @ 16:55
Give an answer ->10. My boyfriend chats to other girls on Facebook and hides it from me, then tells me I'm paranoid. Is this normal or is he up to something?
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Sunflowergal
27 October 2011 @ 13:09
I've had a similar situation. You should definitely request answers from him. If he is just speaking to them because he is i.e. bored at work it is less worrying than if he does that during the time you and him are meant to spend time togehter.
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katttttttttt
26 November 2011 @ 23:51
he's up to something, if you just ignore this and carry on, he'll do it again and again ans one day you may up reading something you dont want to read. Dont let him do this to you, your dont deserve that, no-one does. Talk to him, dont moan or argue, make it clear that its you or he has change.
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31 October 2011 @ 11:02
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:28
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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27 October 2011 @ 11:27
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27 October 2011 @ 11:26
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27 October 2011 @ 11:26
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27 October 2011 @ 11:26
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27 October 2011 @ 11:26
This sounds suspicious to me and I think he might up to something. Did you ask him why he isn't open about it and who the girls he is chatting to are? Maybe he is just trying to prevent an argument over nothing after all.
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14 October 2011 @ 14:49
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I love my partner but can't stop thinking about this other guy at work. Is it possible to forget him, or should I leave my partner for him?
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Tiny_Tim
18 October 2011 @ 16:51
Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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14 October 2011 @ 17:06
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katttttttttt
26 November 2011 @ 23:53
imagine not being with your partner, would you be happy? you may be going through a bad patch with your partner and this other guy may seem like an angel, dont tell your partner about this guy, imagine if it was the other way around, think carefully, whatever will make you happy.
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28 October 2011 @ 11:09
Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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28 October 2011 @ 11:09
Don't leave your partner for this guy, it may just be a school girl/boy crush
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Tiny_Tim
18 October 2011 @ 16:51
Get to know the guy at work and you’ll probably realise your partner has many good qualities you have forgotten about.
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18 October 2011 @ 11:46
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14 October 2011 @ 16:35
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14 October 2011 @ 14:42
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I've just discovered my partner looks at porn on the internet. I'm hurt as he promised he never would. Should I consider it cheating?
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hlin334
8 December 2011 @ 22:02
its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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Anonymous
22 days ago
I am going through exactly the same with my partner. I first found out when i was nearly heavily pregnant with our daughter. he used to watch it before he went to work for 7am most mornings. i found the dvd he watched.another time i found his dirty tissue what he left under the coffee table! and then found out months later (after trying to regain my trust in him by never doing it again) that he watches it on the internet. I am always looking at his history on the computer to see what he has been looking at. sometimes he looks at sexy girls pics on facebook. I just dont know how to block feeling so betrayed by him, we are never close in the bedroom because of my mental issues with this
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hlin334
8 December 2011 @ 22:02
its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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Annika89
27 October 2011 @ 11:59
It's horrible to discover but I wouldn't call it cheating. Tell him how it makes you feel and ask him why he feels the need to do it. He may be able to reassure you.
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its not cheating and tell him not to promise you if he cant keep it and explain how it makes you feel.
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18 October 2011 @ 16:49
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Dominic
18 October 2011 @ 11:58
No, but you definitely need to speak to him and tell him how you feel about this and the impact it will have on your relationship with him.
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bouncinniki
about 13 hours ago
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How do i choose between my freedom and career, or my fiance and being isolated?
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3 days ago
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do u give someone a thir chance if you were a bit speedy in ending things?
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tasha_ch
about 19 hours ago
I don't think its about you giving them a chance but rather THEY giving you a chance y'know? Why did you end it so speedily and now why do you want to give that person another chance! Really think about what it is that you want before entering another 'thing' because its not fair to them and most importantly you if you aren't sure about what you want/need.
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pinegala
4 days ago
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my gf was hiding the fact that her ex is still on her head a month ago when we start our relationship. can i trust her now as she seems okay
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tasha_ch
3 days ago
Trust is built on communication and it seems that she told you about thinking of he ex? If that's the case it means that she trusts you. However, I can see why it would make you wonder. I say that you see how it goes and make sure that you make her aware that you trust her but not to the point that you're a doormat y'know? She has to know that it's not fair to you to be thinking of someone else in that way.
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If you say that you love you boyfriend but keep thinning about a guy at work, you need to figure out why. What is going on at home? When we are either unhappy or avoiding issues at home, it can make us look at situations around us and remember how simple things were in the beginning. Take time to really figure out what is going on for you here. If you love you boyfriend, you owe it to him (and you) to figure out what is going on and to try to resolve things. I know it's wonderful to be seduced by the romance of this other guy...but think about what you have and what you want before you act. Good luck.