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Good and bad arguing
Good and Bad Arguing
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Psychologist Janet Reibstein discusses different types of arguing including both good and bad arguing.
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Anonymous on 06 October 2009 at 12:03pm said...
we have been together more than 4 years and now a days we start arguing a lot maybe every 2 3 days. I am fad up, I want peace very much. we have 2 and 6\12 years child and he has another son who live with his mother. when we start our relatioship he was married and I was insisting there shouldn't be any romance relationship bettwen us. but he said he love me and he want to be with me and he said evenif I am not going to be with him he will leave her. after that our relationship start and I got peregnant and he told her and he leave them and we start leave together. when ever we fight he start saying that he feel guility leaveing them and so on and the same time I found out an mail he wrot to another women explaing our relationship and appolegising for what he did. and I asked him and he said it is another relationship which stop before we started seen. eenif I knew it was not like that I choose to leave it for a sake of our child but after that I couldn't trust him at all, anything he said, to me it is a lie.
if I have to aske him about his salary, he will start saying he has another responsiblity to look after means his x-wife and his child. his wife has been a pain to me starting from I was peregnant and now I change my mobile number so I get some peace. I am always not sure about our relationship and I don't know what to do. I knew I make a mistake beliveing what he said the first time but all passed and we have a child but still I don't feel our relationship is right and I want to leave him always or to work things out evenif I don't know how.
Jenny (a member of the Talk It Out team) on 18 November 2009 at 4:49pm said...
Dear Anonymous, Your post would benefit from being re-entered in the Talk It Out section of this website, which is the forum where the community read such posts and add comments for you. I hope you read this note and stay with us! Best wishes, Jenny